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It was Lemn Sissay. They treated me as if I was a Trojan horse sent into the family to destroy it. I wanted to tackle the sometimes subconscious, but overall still damaging stereotypes often perpetuated in the media, such as care-experienced people not achieving or succeeding in life due to their background. I loved the Market, the Flower Park, the Big Park, the books. 19 April 1978: There is a letter on file from Normans mother, written in 1968, requesting he be returned to her in Ethiopia perhaps Norman should be made aware of this? Social workers report, on which someone has written in block capitals, NOT YET I THINK. It was Lemn Sissay. This is an edited extract from My Name Is Why: a Memoir by Lemn Sissay, published by Canongate on 29 August at 16.99. A decade ago, Clare Gorham was very much pro transracial adoption. Thered be many times in the future that I would play table tennis with myself by pushing the table against the wall. Night cant drive out nightOnly the light aboveFear cant drive out fearOnly love. Of course I loved them. Lemn Sissay said it was "a wonderful thing to be recognised as somebody who has got my kind of past" Poet Lemn Sissay has dedicated his OBE to his younger self who he said overcame a. Lemn thanked the audience, saying: You have been a blessing and shared my story. Someone gave me a fish-finger sandwich and I was like, Ive made it. Leaving care was harder: The social housing that I got put into was not the best there were needles all over the floor and blood on the wall and the support wasnt always the greatest. Support for care leavers has since improved, Mahmood says, thanks to new policies from her local authority in Kirklees. It had its pitfalls, he says, but it was unique.. My mother was a manic depressive, so I was in and out of care. I came into care when I was 13, due to being homeless, says Sanna Mahmood. Today we stand proud as care leavers and remove societys stigma. Brown defied expectations by progressing to university and getting a Masters. He advocates for children in the local authority's care and is involved in organisations concerning their welfare. Now Popoola is a novelist and an associate lecturer at Central Saint Martins in London. I used to let Christopher win at things, because he would get really upset when he didnt win, so I would play the wall and then let the ball go, and say to the wall: 15 love, to you. There was always a decision as I got to the end of the game with the wall, about whether Id let him win or not. I know I was lucky, I was loved, he says. Now my foster mother sends me birthday cards. She looked at me as if I had wounded her. Where I grew up, in a very white conservative area, there werent any other people who looked like me for the best part of 16 years, she says. Lemn Sissay MBE (born 21 May 1967) is an English author and broadcaster. In terms of the care system, everybody has such massively different experiences, she says, and the fact that sometimes we are all put into one bracket is, I think, a little bit unfair., Artist, puppet-maker and puppeteer for film and TV, I decided quite early on that whatever happened to me, I wasnt going to be a victim of it, says Marcus Clarke, who lived in two national childrens homes in the early 60s, aged four to seven, while his mother was caring for his ailing father. April 1974: Im seven. Its really horrible.. But its a bit of a B-movie of an existence. He was taken into long-term foster care in Wigan and named Norman Greenwood. Its about thriving in life and doing what makes you happy., Zarina Bhimji was taken into a childrens home at 14, then a foster family. Now my mindset is slightly different. To mark National Poetry Day this month, poet and author Lemn Sissay muses on a country childhood of mixed blessings - and why this year he is more hopeful than ever. My care experience was both traumatic and enlightening, says Johanan Walker, who went into care in east London after she had a baby at 12. Buy My Name Is Why By Lemn Sissay. His autobiography, Little Big Man (out 14 October), describes how he turned his life around to become an actor and musician. But success is not about being the lord mayor, she told a group of care leavers recently. Lemn Sissay. This is the story of being stolen by the state and his 17 years in local authority care. The foster parents have spoken of adoption, but they are afraid that investigations may lead to his mother. Social workers report. Because her care experience happened so early she was in and out of a foster home in east London until the age of five Siroun Button never really thought of herself as somebody whod been in care. Rosie Canning, aged four, as a bridesmaid to her foster mothers son, 1962. These are social graces that help us to move on.. A social worker placed Lemn with white Christian foster parents, David and Catherine Greenwood, who lived in Ashton-in-Makerfield. He was British and Ethiopian. All I knew was that my birth mother, the woman who had my face and my blood, was from Africa and Africa was where poor people were. I remember the smell of wet heather, bracken and fern. Theyre part of a poem-a-day project by their author Paul Cookson, who was born in the north of England and adopted shortly afterwards by a family in Essex. Often, I would. This was the beginning of empty Christmas time and hollow birthdays. Director of strategy and integration for Central and North West London NHS Foundation Trust, Im hopeful that attitudes towards those in care are changing, says Meera Mistry, who was in foster care in London for most of her teens. It was a beautiful thing for me when I found my birth mother, but it was complicated too. The abuse she endured, none of which came from her own family, was incomprehensible and frightening, she says. We want you to spend the next day thinking about love and what it is. Wherever I lived, my care experience included libraries and reading, and without them I wouldnt be here, says Rosie Canning, who was put into care in London at six weeks. Being in foster care is probably the primary reason why I had a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder, says Derek Owusu, whose award-winning debut novel, That Reminds Me, explores the after-effects of a childhood in care. Went on to talk about another placement for Norman without any consideration of how the boy might feel. I would narrate the game against Christopher, my invisible brother and Id let him win. show more Product details Format Hardback | 208 pages Dimensions 162 x 220 x 25mm | 422g Norman Greenwood was given his birth certificate. Born in London, Henry was privately fostered at six months by a wonderful couple in Weston-super-Mare who encouraged her dreams of becoming an actor shes currently starring in Mad House in the West End. 0 likes. Paperback. Theyd come down to see us and say hi. Sissay has spoken out about his care experience and its many traumas throughout his career as a poet and broadcaster. $21.87 10 New from $16.75. Now Im starting to realise that it did really have an impact on me, she says. It must be true. It was only recently that one of her brothers acknowledged what shed gone through and apologised for failing to confront it. My brother Christopher is a year younger than me and I really loved him when I was a kid. We were very secure in our upbringing. But he did accidentally come across his birth name: Christopher Goldsmith. She had a deeply unsettled childhood, moving between foster families and childrens homes from the age of six months, after her parents were badly injured in a motorcycle accident. He has authored collections of poetry and plays and his memoir My Name Is Why was a number one Sunday Times bestseller. Akabusi joined the British army aged 16 and later embarked on a glittering athletics career as a sprinter and hurdler. Or 45 years. They were happy, he says. A lot of care-experienced people will also measure success by how were feeling internally, how we manage our mental health and wellbeing, and not always what were achieving externally. Moved into a childrens home aged six, Saha then went to live with adoptive parents in Merseyside the following year a complex but positive experience for which he feels lots of gratitude. And he learned that his mother had been pleading for his safe . His own inspiration in poetry has come from ColeridgesRime of the Ancient Mariner. She was pregnant with her son Lemn, who would go on in later life to become a playwright, broadcaster, writer and speaker. PAIN Parents against Injustice is a voluntary organisation, run and funded by volunteers who provide help and support to families caught in the care system. Today, we are as close as she can allow herself to be. We fought with unbridled determination the way brothers do. He was badly bullied at school and his education suffered terribly, but he soldiered on and enrolled at Bird College aged 22 to study dance and musical theatre. Its not a shameful thing any more. Hoyle went into care as a young teenager and at 18 he set up a charity for care leavers called A National Voice: We campaigned to stop children in care leaving with their belongings in bin bags. Now he works for North Yorkshire county council identifying and implementing ways that we can make life better for children in care. In that situation, a mother doesnt see her child, she is wrenched into the memory of the father. Founder and executive chef, Bramble Dining, Aged eight, Richard Bramble and his older brother Greg, also featured, moved in with a foster family near Leamington Spa. His zodiac sign is Gemini. Author, broadcaster, chancellor of the University of Manchester. Macavity was such a contrast to my blond, blue-eyed brother Christopher. The foster parents, Catherine and David Greenwood, went on to have three children of their own. Raising a joyous toast to the forgotten and the forgettable, Sissay recognizes the power we give to what we pay attention to and invites us to look anew at all that has been undervalued. Now hes written a lyrical memoir describing his experiences, Lemn Sissay, poet, performer and chancellor at the University of Manchester, was born in Billings Hospital near St Margarets House for pregnant unmarried girls and women in Wigan, Greater Manchester, to an Ethiopian student on 21 May 1967. Secrets are the stonesThat sink the boatTake them out, look at themThrow them out and float. Now, as he approaches his 55th birthday, he's added another: children's writer. The heartache and anger of his youth alternate in his poetry with lighter, whimsical aphorisms and celebrations of place . ISBN: 9781786892362. 4 October 1979: The Greenwoods are seen by Norman as his parents, and they and their natural children meet his needs in every way. Social workers report. Alex Wheatle grew up in care in the notorious Shirley Oaks childrens home in Croydon a very lonely existence, he says. The social worker handed Lemn to foster parents and declared his name Norman. Sarah looked pretty as a picture in her blue floral dress. All my personal belongings went in the locker by the bed. But I will ask God for forgiveness and learn to love you. This was the perfect answer. A poem by Lemn Sissay. In. She said: Take them off and give them to him. I didnt understand. He has authored collections of poetry and plays. Its never really been something that had a lasting effect on me., CEO of Adoptee Futures and critical adoption studies researcher, I was fostered till the age of one and then placed with my adoptive family, says Annalisa Toccara. He tapped the indicator and pulled quietly into a lay-by and turned the engine off. The Care Leavers Association is a national user-led charity aimed at improving the lives of care leavers of all ages. Later, while piecing together his origins, he discovered that his mother had pleaded for his return and been denied by social services. Donna Ludford, aged six months, with her dad. 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